Showing posts with label stories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stories. Show all posts

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Living Beyond the Diagnosis

Dear Life,

I have introduced you to just a very small amount of families that are living with Spina Bifida.  In sharing these stories, I hope you have seen what these families have gone through (in a small way)....from devastation when finding out the news to living beyond the diagnosis.  That is a HUGE phrase.  LIVING BEYOND THE DIAGNOSIS.  LIVING.  That's what it's all about.  And that can be said for any person dealing with a medical diagnosis.  It's just that.  A diagnosis.  Yes, in this case these people have Spina Bifida.  But Spina Bifida does not have them.  It does not define them.  How they live their lives defines them.  Who they are as people (even little kiddos) defines them.  Their spirit defines them.  Sometimes, with surgeries or illnesses, they regress, and sometimes it would be easier to stay home and not make the effort of going out, and living their life.  But that is why we are here....to live life.  And all these families and thousands others are living their lives and living it well.  It can be hard, and we cry sometimes.  We laugh more, we live more.  You can see that in their smiles.  Thank you for taking the time to read about these families.   I would like to thank all of the people who shared their hearts with me, and allowed me to share their stories with you.  You may not know it, but it is really hard to relive some of the experiences we have shared.  I am really grateful to all of my wonderful friends for opening up a window into their lives.  I also want to thank all of my readers for always being so supportive of my family, Kumaka, and little Sofi.  This is has been an amazing month for me.  A reaffirming month....a month of strength, courage, endurance and love.

If you missed any stories, look below and you will find a link to that post. 


Nathaniel's Story  




















Brendan's Story 
















     






                        



























Halle's Story
















Taylor's Story



















Jet's Story
 














Keely's Story





















Neveah's Story










Yordanka's Story




















Micah's Story




















Tanner's story

















































































Sunday, July 8, 2012

Story....chapter two

Dear Life,


Yesterday I wrote a blog post with the prompt Story....you can read about it here.


Today I have another story to write.  It's the story of a mother.  A mother who's heart is full....and yet empty.


When you have your first child, you are so excited to have this sweet little baby in your arms.  Your story has begun....as you have become a mother and your child is intertwined with your heart and your story is also intertwined.


You anxiously await for each milestone...checking them off as your baby accomplishes them. 
First smile...
First time rolling over...
First time you fed them...
First time standing...
First time walking...


And it progresses...


First time going to school...
First date...
First time driving...


And then it happens.


They graduate high school.



When on earth did this happen?  How did the time go by so quickly? 




And then the impossible happens....
They go off to college.
They become adults.
They move on.
Your heart breaks.
And although you are so happy, so excited for your child's story to begin....
You are sad for his story with you is now different. 
He doesn't look for you to solve his problems anymore.
You aren't his world anymore.
He will write his own story now...


I am so proud of my son...
For he has taken an important step in adulthood and gone off to college.
My heart misses him so very much though.


Yesterday I expected him to come out of his bedroom.
He never did.
Today I remembered him blessing the sacrament at church...
He wasn't there.
His memories are all around me while he is creating new ones for himself.


This is the time our stories go separate ways...
We will meet up sometimes and create chapters...
And for that I can't wait.
I miss him terribly....and yet I am so excited for him.